New year New Goals New Me

With 2009 under my belt I have said Hello and goodbye to some people. Some were easier to say goodbye to and others made me make a decision to have to say it. Like my friend Johnell told me " Some people need to realize that you are disposable in my life" and that was some of the realist shit she ever spoke. So with saying good bye to people it made me evaluate what those so called friends and family brought to my life.

1. Drama that I don't want and don't have time for, I'm mad and sticking up for a person who does not show me the same respect or give the same consideration that I give people. If I will RIDE OR DIE for you should I not get the same in return?

2. Having to hear your STUPID comments in situations that YOU put your self in. You ask for my advice I give it and you do the opposite what sense does that make.

3. Finally coming to the realization that you don't have to be here and I have the CHOICE to deal with who I want to deal with and who I do not want to deal with. I refuse to fight for relationships with people that I don't really want.


Like my Sis Moka says " I create my own family with my friends" some people just need to get kicked out the family with their Chimichanga asses LOL.

So New and improved Rugie 20.10 is just happy and living life enjoying this time I have with my friends and family and appreciating the good relationships that I do have and not dwelling on the ones that did not make it to 2010.

I been Gone for a miniute

Welcome 2010

Now with 2010 with almost one month down and 11 to go I guess its time for me to get back to my blog.....Back by popular demand and some threats I'm back. So I have been dating someone who I will call my secret well most of my real friends know that he is really not that much of a secret but more along the lines of getting to know before I let everyone in on whats been going on with us.

Sometimes keeping things to your self is not a bad thing. We as Women need to know when we should keep our mouths shut and just enjoy a good thing. Now what should we get into.... My friends and myself after watching and thinking about the future and not wanting to be one of those women who are 30 and single have come to the realization that MR. RIGHT DOES NOT EXIST. So I have stopped my search for the 6"0 chiseled body, college grad, working in a fortune 500 company driving the really nice car, No kids, Looks that make me melt and nice and knows how to treat a woman. Reality is my friend; So I just need someone who has common sense, a Job, attractive and goals still shooting for No kids I'm not giving that one UP!

But I'm the last of a dying BREED also, mid 20's No kids great job, college educated and I can COOK and CLEAN. So I also had to realize that I might not be my Mr. Rights Mrs. Right but I know that I'm not Mrs. Wrong. So as for now I will just sit back and relax. I would rather be alone that date a man that does not really want me or talks crazy to me or disrespects me.

Truly Yours ,

Legally Rugie Bee